Today should be my brother, Will’s birthday, but he’s not here to congratulate. So, instead, here is a song for him. It’s Nina Simone singing Here Comes the Sun, just because he was a fan, and even met her once. Apparently, she was very taken with his dog, Lady – a scary beast he’d almost literally stolen from a man who was using her for fighting. Odd behaviour I admit, but pretty much what I expected from my little brother, and he was rewarded with a lifetime of love and loyalty from a very grateful dog.

He wasn’t the most conventional of people – his exploits would probably outrage Daily Mail reading Middle England – but he was never cruel or malicious, quite the opposite; he was intelligent, kind, brave, very talented, and most important of all, very much loved.

I was very touched to see how many people attended his funeral. Hundreds of people from all walks of life and from all over Europe came to say goodbye to him. The establishment rubbed shoulders with New Age travellers, all got along remarkably well, and all had an anecdote to share. My brother was remembered very fondly, which I think is a sign that, although his life was short, it was worthwhile; not only will he be deeply missed by many, many people, but in time they will remember him and smile.

Anyhoo – Bilbo, I hope you, Lady and Nina Simone are having a bunfight, replete with lots of blancmange, and JD. Keep an eye on Barnie for me … and tell Pater to stop trying to redesign the afterlife; I’m sure that if it needed built-in wardrobes it would already have them x

Yes, my blog disappeared. I’ve been doing completely non-stressful things, such as: packing to move house, and completely forgot to renew my hosting. Doh! Anyhoo, it’s back now, or at least, most of it is; I’m missing all the posts since May of last year :-( Some are still amongst my email, but I fear others have disappeared into the ether – including my Jane Austen and the Monkey Butlers post, which is disappointing, I felt that was one of my finest contributions to the blogosphere.

I’ve also had to recreate the blogroll, but I know many people are missing from it still. If you are amongst them, just let me know and I’ll add you asap!

In other news: am I the only person who has conversations with their mother that go:

Mater: Mrs Soandso has died?

Me: Sorry to hear that, but I don’t think I know her.

Mater: You do! It was her daughter who ran away with the circus.

Me: No, I’m sure I don’t know them.

Mater: You do! They had the dog that played the trombone.

Me: Still doesn’t ring any bells.

Mater: Oh well, she’s dead anyway. I passed on your condolences to her family.

Or ones that go:

Mater: Thingy was asking after you today.

Me: Who?

Mater: Thingy – you remember, her sister was the one who climbed Everest in flip-flops.

Me: No, I don’t think I know her.

Mater: You must do! She knows you.

Me: Well, I don’t know her.

Mater: You must! Her father single-handedly built the bypass out of stone left over from his rockery.

Me: Nope, can’t place her.

Mater: Oh well, I told her to add you on Facebook – you don’t mind do you?

Updated to add: I’ve found the missing posts! Just remembered posts from here appear in my Facebook notes, so I had a look and yes! They are all there! Even the Jane Austen/monkey butlers one. Not sure what to do with them now. I suppose I could add the better ones here occasionally, or not. I’ll have to think about that.

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